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Luke's Note
The tradition of marriage dates back to Ancient Rome. Our modern traditions however only go back 100 years. Marriage used to be about making a desirable stranger part of the family (ie economic & political reasons) - it had nothing to do with love. Weddings as we know them today are not traditional
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The diamond industry (De Buyers) convinced people that diamonds are rare - they’re not. Engagement rings used to signify ownership. Women were purchased and given the ring so that they’d have something of value if widowed, left, etc.
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Vendors charge a wedding tax because they know people will pay it. The same services for other events would very likely be cheaper.
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Brides and bridesmaids used to wear similar dresses to confuse bandits who would descend upon the wedding to steal the bride.
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White weddings were basically a display of wealth (white cloth for the dress and white sugar for white cakes were both expensive).